Today is January 3, 2016.
34 years ago the announcement that may have been printed in the local paper would have said, “Mr Teddy Burriss & his lovely wife Rebecca (aka Bum) are the proud parents of a bouncing baby girl.”
I asked them not to print that because I had yet to see our newborn baby bounce. And, Rebecca did not want me to test her.
True story – As an infant, I dropped her once and I was not testing the bounce theory.
Fast forward to yesterday when this observation of being the Father of a 34 year old really hit me.
I decided to look back at the past 34 years and review the memories.
Here are the ones that came to mind the quickest, not necessarily in chronological order:
- 8lbs, 1 oz, 21.5″ long, ear is red from doctor using forceps, no birth marks
- very alert, as if to be asking “who is that loud guy?”
- blue eyes, ultimately blond hair at year 1
- Ronald Regan was our President
- loved to put food in her hair
- Loves mashed potatoes
- face plant at the pool
- cousins
- burb-bottom
- loves to help mom cook
- Dad hung Aubrey (the doll)
- at Fireworks – ‘change the channel please’
- “I’ll have Chicken nuggets and for my two sides I’ll have mashed potatoes and mashed potatoes”
- Made me smile day one and still today
- Short curly hair as a child
- She loves (loved?) mismatched clothes
- Play music and she danced. More like her mommy, not her daddy
- Put a crayon or pencil in her hand and she smiled as she wrote words
- She loves to learn
- She loves the teachers who care to teach her
- She asks lots of questions
- She was as beautiful as a child as she is today
- No, she did not have me wrapped around her little finger
- I gave her my favorite little car
- Miss curfew and Mom will run down the sidewalk in her big fluffy yellow robe & curlers in her hair to yell at you and your boy friend
- She was clear and precise at finding her life partner. Skips celebrations on Leap Year since 2000
- Her husband is a good choice.
- The trials and tribulations of becoming a tenant. Slum lords suck
- Love pushes you to achieve lots of goals, including your husband’s US Citizenship. It was all him, but with a good women behind him
- Early Home Owner because you built your Credit Score
- You became a fabulous mommy in development on 5/13/2003
- “What do you hear?”, “I hear two”, “two what”, “heart beats”, “where”, in there”, “in her?”….
- A business woman has Focus, Passion, Desire, Attitude, Ability, Purpose, Goal, Compassion, Faith and never lets anything stop her from building a thriving business that changes peoples lives in a positive way
- Landlord, Home Owner & Mortgage Banker
- Yeah, we’ll have 4 children
- Your family is my family, let’s do what we can to help them
- Our home is their home
- We are responsible for her success because we brought her to our home. We’ll treat her like our daughter.
- Tippy
- Becca
- Rosie
- Bubble Lips
- Hard work is only for those who don’t love their business
- Yes baby, we’ll move to Raleigh because you love your job
- Tree
- Luge in the back yard in the winter
- Walking in the blizzard
- Can I play with the computer Daddy?
- What is the Internet and how do you make money using it?
- Myrtle
- GrandWeWaps
- Dad bought a bra
- Boss & Leader
- Entrepreneur
- Activist
- Writer
- Why is Izzy crying now?
- Columnist
- If the answer should be yes, she’ll not take no for an answer.
- Smart
- Sassy
- Frugal
- Moola Saving Mom is a success!
- Strategist
- Happy
- Loving
My daughter – Jessie Lee.
I am a blessed Man. I have four beautiful smart, compassionate daughters. Each raising their own family. Being a Blessed Dad kicked off for me 34 years ago.
Happy Birthday Jessie
I love you
Dad
Here are some images that sparked my memories
Stumbled on this GEM of a ‘true life’ tale this morning while waiting for my brother as he gets his blood work done. Your story brought tears to my eyes. Thanks tb
Thanks for the note Nicole.